堅苦しい かたくるしい Also written かたぐるしい Meanings い-adjective formal; stiff; strict; ceremonious Kanji 堅 firm. Read as かたい. 苦 suffer. Read as くるしい. Example sentences 堅苦しいことはぬきにしましょう。Let's dispense with formalities. 堅苦しく考えないで、くつろいでください。Don't stand on ceremony. Just make yourself at home. 彼は私達に対して実に堅苦しい。He is very formal with us. そんなに堅苦しくなる必要はないよ。You don't have to be so formal. 堅苦しい挨拶は抜きにして、さあ食べましょう。Let's skip the formalities now, it's time to eat. Jinuma: Japanese Dictionary · Word lists