人には添うてみよ馬には乗ってみよ
ひとにはそうてみようまにはのってみよ
Also written 人には添うて見よ馬には乗って見よ
Meanings
- Expression you can't judge someone until you've spent time with them; you can't judge something until you've tried it (literally: judge a man by living with him, and try a horse by riding him)