去る者は追わず、来たる者は拒まず さるものはおわず、きたるものはこばまず Meanings Expression do not pursue those who leave you and do not turn away those who come to you Kanji 去 gone. Read as さる. 者 person. Read as もの. 追 chase. Read as おう. 来 come. Read as きたる. 拒 refuse. Read as こばむ. Word lists Proverbs Jinuma: Japanese Dictionary · Word lists