去る者日々に疎し さるものひびにうとし Meanings Expression with time we forget those who have died; out of sight, out of mind See also: 去る者は日々に疎し (さるものはひびにうとし). friendships fade with distance Kanji 去 gone. Read as さる. 者 person. Read as もの. 日 day 疎 sparse. Read as うとい. Word lists Proverbs Jinuma: Japanese Dictionary · Word lists