手に負える てにおえる Also written 手におえる Meanings Expression, Ichidan verb to be manageable; to be able to handle (usu. in the negative) See also: 手に負えない (てにおえない). Kanji 手 hand. Read as て. 負 lose. Read as おう. Words containing 手に負える 手に負えない (てにおえない) too much for one to handle Jinuma: Japanese Dictionary · Word lists